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How To Reduce Workplace Female Chatting?

2010/10/18 9:07:00 37

"Look back

We

See you on MSN. "

"I'll give it to you on QQ.

Leaving a message.

".

Two friends on the Internet talked about tea and chatting together. After the greeting greetings, both sides' language system seemed to be stuck. I didn't know what to say. Finally, I met each other on the Internet.

Reporters learned from Hushang psychological counseling agency that after many young students had Internet addiction disorder, some young office workers were too dependent on online chatting system to communicate with others.

80% white-collar workers like to chat with MSN and QQ for lunch.

"OK."

"Now, now

Set out

"See you at the elevator."

This is the MSN chat record of two female white-collar workers working in the same company.

It is understood that many colleagues in the same office exchange MSN numbers, in addition to sending information and photos, this kind of quiet instant dialogue is very popular among them.

A survey conducted by China talent network shows that more than 80% of white-collar workers like to use MSN, QQ and other instant messaging tools to carry out daily business exchanges. Many people even use MSN and QQ.

In modern office environment, most companies can provide Internet access almost 24 hours a day. As long as they go into their own space on the Internet, they can see whether many close friends or workmates are online. If there are any problems, they can ask questions at any time. What discount and discount information can be sent to each other?

When I meet, I feel "hollowed out".

While instant chat is fast and convenient, many white-collar workers feel a crisis of "being hollowed out".

In order to enhance communication with customers, Miss Ren, who is a public relations officer, often chatted with customers on MSN, and his work, family and personal thoughts were spread by MSN.

But when we met each other, we found that there was no topic to be said. All the things they could talk about were all at hand.

"I feel a sense of emptying," said Miss Ren.

But as soon as she returned to the Internet, she immediately felt that her mind was agility and her writing was pouring.

There are many other cases like Miss Ren, so that many white-collar workers have the first idea when they want to find someone.

MSN, find that the other side is not on line, then go to QQ, and then go to his blog. It is hard to find the way of the other side, simply take the way of online message.

Overdependence can bring negative effects.

In Shanghai City psychological counseling center and other professional advisory bodies, experts often encounter "meeting how to speak".

Dr Du Ya Song, a center expert, points out that relying on the Internet for a long time will only increase the ability of the machine to operate the computer, because the opportunity to face direct contact with people is reduced, and people's emotions and emotions are hard to feel. They have a negative impact on their psychological adjustment and interpersonal interaction.

To get rid of these negative effects, Dr Du believes that it is necessary to recognize the trouble or serious consequences of unrestrained Internet access: such as poor vision, poor health, dizziness, swelling, loss of appetite, low efficiency, unenthusiastic life, family failure and even breakup, so as to recognize its harmfulness.

Then he forced himself to break the net, actively participated in social activities, and tried to get together with friends who had not walked around for a long time.

In order to avoid the occurrence of the opposite situation, we should draw up some topics that are of interest to both parties.